Dr. Carolina Pataky

Practice Philosophy

As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Clinical Sexologist, and Certified Sex Therapist, I see therapy as both a healing practice and a journey of discovery. My passion is helping people feel deeply connected to themselves and the people they love. Intimacy, to me, is not just about sex or relationships, but also about the courage to be fully seen, accepted, and authentic in all areas of life.

My relational and integrative approach blends psychodynamic therapy, somatic work, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and mindfulness practices to support healing at multiple levels. Known for my discreet, concierge-style care, I work with individuals and couples including executives, public figures, and discerning professionals  to navigate challenges such as infidelity, intimacy blocks, trauma, and the pressures of balancing love, success, and public life.

Over the years, I have developed signature programs such as the H.I.M. Method (Healing Intimacy in Men) and co-created the Love Discovery Institute’s Building Love and Intimacy programs. These frameworks help people break old patterns, restore trust, and create lasting transformation. My work goes beyond symptom relief, guiding clients toward resilience, authenticity, and deeper connection in both life and love.

Specialties

Individual Therapy

I work with adult clients who want to feel more whole, balanced, and connected in their lives. Many come to me during times of transition or when they feel stuck in cycles of anxiety, depression, or self-doubt. My role is to help uncover what lies beneath the surface, bring clarity to what feels overwhelming, and provide the tools for meaningful growth and lasting change.

Couples Therapy

In my work with couples, I provide a structured and compassionate space where partners can navigate conflict more effectively, strengthen intimacy and communication, rebuild trust after infidelity, and move through important life transitions together whether that means entering parenthood, adapting to career changes, or navigating other major shifts. With specialized training in Imago Relationship Therapy and studies with Drs. John and Julie Gottman, I help couples create deeper understanding and reignite closeness in their connection.

Sex Therapy 

Through sex therapy, I help clients explore and heal the intimate aspects of their lives. With men, this often means addressing performance anxiety, erectile concerns, or struggles with emotional intimacy. With women, I support challenges related to desire, arousal, pregnancy, childbirth, and the postpartum period, as well as issues such as painful sex or diminished confidence. For couples, I work with sexless marriages, mismatched desire, and rebuilding intimacy after betrayal. My approach also creates a safe, judgment-free space for clients to explore desires and kinks, as well as for couples  including same-sex partners who want to strengthen intimacy and communication.

Areas of Focus

Beyond these specialties, my work also emphasizes:

• Healing from trauma and attachment wounds – Using trauma-informed, somatic, and psychodynamic methods.

• Infidelity and relationship repair – Supporting couples through betrayal recovery to rebuild connection.

• Men’s intimacy and emotional health – Through the H.I.M. Method, guiding men toward emotional depth and meaningful connection.

• Mindfulness and embodied healing – Weaving in breathwork and somatic practices to deepen awareness and regulation.

Background

I earned my Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts, my Master’s in Counseling from Carlos Albizu University, and a Doctorate in Clinical Sexology from the International Institute of Clinical Sexology.

I have trained with world-renowned experts including Drs. John and Julie Gottman, Stanislav Grof, and Carol Clark, and hold specialized training in Imago Relationship Therapy and the Gottman Method.

Today, I co-lead the Love Discovery Institute in Coral Gables, where I guide individuals and couples alongside a talented team of clinicians. I also collaborate with luxury destinations such as the Carillon Miami Wellness Resort and Sandals Resorts, leading exclusive retreats that blend clinical depth with high-end wellness experiences. These retreats attract an international audience of professionals and couples seeking transformation in both love and life.

In the Media

My insights have been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, Univision, Psychology Today, Bustle, MindBodyGreen, Miami New Times, and Ocean Drive. Beyond print, I have been a guest on television, podcasts, and digital platforms, where I share expertise on intimacy, modern dating, and the evolving landscape of love.

Dr. Pataky brings psychological depth to conversations on celebrity relationships, reality TV dynamics, and love in the public eye, making her a natural fit for media outlets seeking expertise on high-stakes relationships. Known for her warm and dynamic style, she makes complex psychological insights accessible and relatable, which has positioned her as a trusted voice for both media outlets and high-profile clients.

With a unique blend of clinical expertise, cultural insight, and media presence, I bridge the worlds of therapy, luxury wellness, and public conversation.